Jennifer Lopez says her split with Ben Affleck almost “took [her] out for good” . . . but ultimately it was a good thing. She tells “Interview” magazine, quote, “Now, on the other side of it, I think to myself, ‘[Eff], that is exactly what I needed. Thank you, God. I’m sorry it took me so long. I’m sorry that you had to do this to me so many times.’ Jennifer still isn’t sure if she’s got it all figured out, but at least for the time being, she’s EXCITED about being single. Quote, “I’m not looking for anybody, because everything that I’ve done over the past 25, 30 years, being in these different challenging situations, what can I [effing] do when it’s just me flying on my own? What if I’m just free?”