There have been rumors for years about the Xscape member and the So So Def founder being in a relationship that caused some tension on the group. Singer LaTocha Scott, made allegations stating that Kandi got involved with Dupri to further her career outside of the group, which contributed to their 1998 split. Eventually, Kandi’s diary went missing and it contained details about the secret romance. “Now I can’t say that Tocha herself stole my diary, but somebody that was close to her definitely got a hold to it,” Kandi said. “I can’t prove who took the diary. I had an idea. I felt like I knew who took it but I couldn’t prove it, so I couldn’t do anything about it.”